Nowadays most parents put a lot of pressure on their children to succeed. What are the reasons for parents to do this? Does it have a positive or a negative effect on children in general?
In today world, people have fewer children than they have in the past. So they spend a lot of time on supporting and teaching their children as well as putting more expectation on their children. Some people agree with this method but others think that parent should consider it. This essay will discuss possible reasons and effects on children.
It is no doubt that almost parent have the best preparations for their children when they grow up. Nowadays, people need more knowledge and skills to get achievements in the future. So that, parent may have to focus more on their children to avoid something which may distract them on studying. Moreover, some parents want their children who may achieve more great successes in their life than other children. In Asia, family expectation is very important. In normal conversation, people always tell achievements of their kids. As a result, if their children are not well in studying parents may feel embarrassing.
It is inevitable that this method has many positive effects on children. Recently, a book named “Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mother” was published in 2011 which brought out a controversial discussion among parents in the world. The mom in this book required 2 daughters much and severely punished them when they were lazy or didn’t get high score. After all, her daughters passed over Harvard entrance examination and won 2 prizes of music.
However, it causes many disadvantages on children’s life. Under pressure, children try the best to do well, so they may not have enough time to play sports or get involve in outdoor activities. In addition, they may suffer some psychological illnesses such as stress or depression.
In conclusion, there are many causes when parent put pressure on their children. This method helps their children to catch useful skill and knowledge; however it also leads to some negatives for their mental health of children. In my opinion, parents should balance expectation of parent and requirement of their children in order to nurture their children well.